The world is getting rude.
Sometimes my ears yearn for those soft and fluid words that show our humanity: our belief in Christ and the worth of a soul. The virtues of unselfishness and patience. Ah, words of kindness . . .
Print them out and post them on your bathroom mirror. Practice saying them while you are in the shower, until they sound convincingly polite and loving. Use them all day long, as much as you can. Embrace them and make them part of your vocabulary. Expect your children to do the same. Teach your littlest toddler to say, “You go first” instead of “me first”.
You go first.
How can I help?
What would make you most comfortable?
It’s my fault.
It’s okay—I have time.
Let me help you.
Thank you.
No worries!
I’m so sorry.
Don’t stress, it’s fine.
Excuse me.
It’s okay.
You go first.
These tender words will reap you a harvest of gentle feelings, appreciation, and love towards each other.
Ah, sweet civility!
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