{"id":821,"date":"2014-12-28T12:34:26","date_gmt":"2014-12-28T19:34:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/happyhomeschooling.com\/?page_id=821"},"modified":"2015-07-08T20:29:45","modified_gmt":"2015-07-09T02:29:45","slug":"happy-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/happy-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy Girl"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"  wp-image-6200 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/louisahike.jpg?resize=184%2C266&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"louisahike\" width=\"184\" height=\"266\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What does it take to make a happy girl?<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the recipe:<\/p>\n<p>* Knowing she is a daughter of God<br \/>\n* Chances to work hard and serve others<br \/>\n* One-on-one time with Mom<br \/>\n* Challenging enough academic studies<br \/>\n* Time to read uplifting classic books<br \/>\n* A hobby to keep her hands busy<br \/>\n* Friends who share values<br \/>\n* Assurance that she is pretty and pleasing in personality<br \/>\n<em>(. . . to name just a few)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The words &#8220;I&#8217;m bored&#8221; are taboo in my home. I guess it is because Grandma always says, &#8220;Only stupid people get bored!&#8221; Every moment of a girl&#8217;s life should <em>not<\/em> be occupied and busy. There needs to be <strong>time to think and daydream<\/strong>, time to ride her bike and write in her journal. I like to teach my girls at an early age to manage their free time by developing some hobbies to keep themselves content. Something as simple as cross-stitching, playing the piano or sketching can give a girl a project to look forward to. Beware not to over-fill her time with outside-the-home commitments, lessons and classes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/DianeJune2007-2.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-6191\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/DianeJune2007-2.jpg?resize=256%2C192&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"DianeJune2007-2\" width=\"256\" height=\"192\" \/><\/a>Every girl needs a friend. In a culture that grows girls up way, way too fast, old-fashioned mother-daughter camaraderie is getting rarer and rarer, and yet <strong>nothing makes a girl as happy as being best friends with her mom!<\/strong> Take the time when they are young, and that devotion will pay back with smoother teenage years and a lifelong friendship!<\/p>\n<p>Besides mom, a couple of like-minded, value-sharing girlfriends can help make life delightful. A girl doesn&#8217;t need a whole class full. I have always been surprised to find that a few friends is enough.<\/p>\n<p>Sweet words are just as important as daily breath, and they live in the memory to keep a girl feeling loved and lovely when the world may shout a negative message. Apply loving praise liberally!<\/p>\n<p>Isn&#8217;t it fun raising girls? Remember, <strong>love is spelled &#8220;T-I-M-E&#8221; to your daughter!<\/strong><br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: 0 !important; background: transparent;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/signatures.mylivesignature.com\/54490\/257\/E095ED040C4EDD3E333135FD5DD62823.png\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>May I recommend:<\/b><\/p>\n<table width=\"600\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.happyhomeschooling.com\/managing-childrens-time\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-4038\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/04\/3partplan.jpg?resize=144%2C144&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"3partplan\" width=\"144\" height=\"144\" border=\"1\" \/>\u00a0The &#8220;1\/3&#8221; Plan for Kids<br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.happyhomeschooling.com\/stop-teasing\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: 1px solid black;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/04\/3babies.jpg?resize=150%2C150&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"3babies\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><br \/>\nBig Bear Hugs<br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lovetolearn.net\/Teaching-Self-Government-Set-of-4-Picture-Books\" target=\"_blank\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: 1px solid black;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/13961.png?resize=108%2C144&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"13961\" width=\"108\" height=\"144\" border=\"1\" \/><br \/>\nSelf-Government Picture Books<br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What does it take to make a happy girl? Here&#8217;s the recipe: * Knowing she is a daughter of God * Chances to work hard and serve others * One-on-one time with Mom * Challenging enough academic studies * Time to read uplifting classic books * A hobby to keep her hands busy * Friends [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6200,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[23,10],"tags":[311,206,314],"class_list":["post-821","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nurturing","category-why-homeschool","tag-child-raising","tag-girls","tag-preteen","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/louisahike.jpg?fit=115%2C166&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6IrRN-df","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":785,"url":"https:\/\/happyhomeschooling.com\/site\/chivalry-its-up-to-us\/","url_meta":{"origin":821,"position":0},"title":"Chivalry, It&#8217;s Up to Us!","author":"Diane Hopkins","date":"","format":false,"excerpt":"My daughter Emily (17) came home from high school thoroughly disgusted. 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